So my husband (M27) and I (F27) have been married for 2 years and dated for 5. Our sex life is great and I enjoy it but there are times when I just want to get off on my own. Although he’s more calm about it, that has always upset him. He won’t complain anymore but I know he’s holding back how he really feels. However what really bothers me is that he will ask me throughout the week if I have done the deed with myself. Sometimes I lie because I just don’t want to tell him. And I know that he wants to ask me so bad why I don’t just do it with him. I truly feel like it’s something personal that I do with myself and theres no reason for him to know. Should I not lie to him or get upset? Or are my feelings valid.