I’m just kind of confused right now. So I have a 5 year old son from a previous toxic relationship and never have seen him in 3 years. 2 years ago I started dating this guy who is amazing. My son is our son, he’s a great dad, present more than my last partner was. And he’s very thoughtful and a good partner. But I’ve been in therapy for three years because of my ex, and other trauma. I often try telling my partner this trauma but he says things like “it doesn’t matter, they’re evil” or “don’t think like that” “it hurts me to know you were in pain” etc. Currently my therapist has had an insurance change and I’m trying to figure out how to see him. My partner got mad I didn’t tell him things or making this a big deal about losing my therapist. I’ve told him I can’t tell him things because of comments made and so I tell my therapist everything and now have lost that source of support. We have been arguing constantly because of this. I love my partner and he’s a good guy but lately it’s been really hard emotionally and I don’t feel like I’m being valued and I’m just always “depressed” or “self-absorbed” but I need to talk to someone. I want that to be my partner and I try telling him I wish he would respond to me differently or need to talk, that it is a big deal. Any advice?