My camera gear was stolen out of my friends cars trunk. I went out to eat after a shoot with a buddy of mine, came back and its gone. We are clearly different, she freaks out when something major happens and im pretty nonchalant. It bugs me that she blames me for things thats out of our control. I always calmy talk to her about the situation and tell her that how its not ok that it happened, its not worth being overly upset about it and that there's worse things that could have happened. That usually sparks the flame even more when I say that which leads to her response of " that's not a good way to think ".
Is there anything else i can say to try to diffuse the situation?