For context, we started dating in October 2024 and got married July 2025. We had known each other for years. But throughout the entire dating/courting process he was seeing this other woman who was his “flight plug” and having all sorts of sexual encounters with her up through may of 2025. He initially told me she was a flight plug, aka someone, in this case a flight attendant he met traveling, who got him on free flights unlimited; but she was just a friend (who maybe wanted more but he never reciprocated that part) and in exchange he got her into different concerts and shows and sports events.
I found out a month and some change into our marriage when I read their texts while using his MacBook. He never told me.
He was also trying to hookup with random people April through may.