She always wants to hang out with her friends and sometimes forgets about our plans
Even if I plan something special she will cancel last minute to see them
When I bring it up she says im overreacting and that friends are important too
I try to understand but I feel invisible like she values them more than me
She also constantly texts them when we are together and gets upset if I ask her to put her phone down
I love her and I dont want to be controlling but I also want to feel like I matter
I dont know if I should just accept it or confront her harder before resentment builds
It hurts seeing her happy with everyone else but distant with me

TL;DR
Girlfriend (F25) prioritizes friends over me I (M26) feel invisible after 2 years


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