I’m 36(m) she’s 32(f) 2 kids. We’ve been together 12 years and this has been a constant struggle. I want 5-6 hours a week to work out, play trumpet/piano, or do other activities. She feels like me wanting to do this is rejection or I don’t like spending time with her. Everyone I know who’s married has more time than that to themselves each week. Im pretty overweight but don’t feel like I can fix that without space and time to be active. Am I not seeing something? Am I in the wrong?