My income has essentially been the same since 2019 besides a growing pension and mutual fund that I can't touch until retirement. My wife was bringing in 1200 a month before she'd decided to quit back in 2022. I guess she figured with the OT I do often that we'd be fine. Fast forward our savings have almost been depleted with inflation and house repairs but she doesn't see the urgency in working. Not to mention my job cutting back OT. All I need is atleast the groceries or car note covered. Is that too much to ask?