I love my husband very much. BUT.
He has been out of work for over a year.
He is very lazy and I’m beginning to feel very resentful. I work, on average 48+ hours a week. I pay his bills and my bills. He’s in tech and I get the market is rough, but he’s looking at the money part of it and not the “hey I should get any job to get some money coming in to help my wife” aspect of it. I work so hard and we are struggling financially. I own my home and he is about to sell his. But he is taking his sweet time cleaning out his house. He lives in a community that is very sought after and he could have 5 offers waiting for him but he’s just so lazy he will sleep all day instead of doing the work. I can’t help him much since I’m always at my job working. I guess I’m just looking for ideas to put a hitch in his giddy up. We’ve only been married for a year but I’m at my wits end. I don’t know how much longer I can do this.
TLDR- lazy husband won’t help and I’m considering divorce after only a year of marriage.