Girlfriend of almost 7 years met up with an old fling from college. She met up with him at a coffee shop after her work because according to her, he just wanted to see her again, nothing romantic. Ended up trying to kiss her and she said absolutely not. She told me about this and I said “Okay you can never speak to him again.” She ended up seeing her at a food spot before a family function and he kissed her. She claims she pulled away pretty much immediately and got into an argument about how he can’t be doing stuff like that. She told me about this situation pretty much immediately. He ended up coming to her work and told him to “fuck off” basically. This was about 2 months ago and i forgave her. I ended up going through her phone and she had notes entries seeming frustrated that he came back into her life trying to “fuck everything up”. Saying how she wants to marry me but seems to be tripping to some degree over seeing this guy again. She knows i went through her phone and she was very upset. We got over all of this. Well, i thought i did. It’s bothering me so much even after this time, like i can’t get over my girlfriend even tripping over another guy. I can’t even imagine me worrying about another woman. I really love this girl but i dont think i can get past this. Is this something you would break up a 7 year relationship for? Or is it fairly minor for you?