hi all. i have been seeing this guy for about a month now and he’s really into me and im into him. we both like sex on the more rough side and he thinks im a bit more freaky than him because i have more experience due to a long term ex bf.
today we had sex and i didn’t want to. i said a few times im serious and i didnt want to but he didnt listen and i think its because he wants to play a more dominant role. but i actually didnt want to. i’ve never had a safe word because i didn’t think ive ever done anything that in need of one. i feel like its my fault because i could’ve been more stern but i just feel shitty idk. how do i talk to him about this? i don’t think i wanna see him again which is disappointing because otherwise we match each other really well