39M and 36F, married 12 years with a 4&2 yr old. We have a baby sitter for the first time in forever lol. To be clear we still do dates, but it's normally put the kids down for bed and have a grandparent watch the monitors just in case. We have a babysitter from 12-3 in San Antonio TX today… And well, what the heck are we supposed to do? We don't drink, all the movies suck, it's still pretty darn hot outside … We just went to the gym last night… Any suggestions?