Hello,
So about six months ago I noticed my girlfriend getting text from a guy.I asked her who is that guy and what he wants,and she just told me that she is just her brothers friend and there is nothing more.I didn’t continue the conversation that day because we were at a wedding and I didn’t want to ruin my night.
This incident really stuck in my mind and I just couldn’t get to get it out of my head.
Come to some months later I noticed that she had a text from that guy again and I asked why is that guy texting you again.She told me that he is frequently ordering take away from the place that she works and that’s about it.
Something deep inside me just doesn’t seem right.
Tonight we were hanging out and I noticed that she had a text from that guy again and she has quit her job from that place.I really have a bad feeling and that guy feeling that something is off!
But here is why I have doubts about all of it.
We are two years together.She is really loving!We spend a lot of time together almost every single day.I met her parents,she talks to her family about me all the time and she always tries her best to surprise me with gifts on special occasions.She wants to travel the world with me and we always make future plans and dreams.If you would ask me I don’t think she is faking,because she really expresses me that she has strong feelings for me.
But this situation with that guy really puts me in a tough spot.
I am an overthinker and this situation just feels off for some reason and the thing is that I can’t confront my girlfriend and really find out if it’s innocent or actually something is up?