Typo in the title I wanted to say hate not have his bestfriend ***
I 18F have a boyfriend 20M, it’s been 4 months he is a loving person, truly the best boyfriend I could ever dream of. But there is one problem in our relationship: his bestfriend Sasha. I had something with Sasha before I met my boyfriend, to say the least we had sex.
We were supposed to be best friend but we screwed up one night and haven’t talk about it since then. A week after what happened I met my current boyfriend. And the problem is that my current boyfriend is Sasha’s bestfriend.
At the beginning of our relationship my boyfriend accidentally showed me few texts from Sasha saying “yeah man you should try to fuck her, she’s really easy to fuck tbh” and I felt so hurt. My boyfriend didn’t think much of it and he just responded to his text saying he was a virgin and was only interested in having a real connection with me and Sasha said “well she is kind of a whore but as long as you’re happy”.
When I heard about it I immediately deleted Sasha from my social medias because I felt so hurt. Even if we decided to not talk about it and act like it never happened, we were still supposed to be bestfriend so I didn’t think he would talk behind my back in such a weird way. Few weeks after this incident, Sasha invited my boyfriend over for a boys night. My boyfriend was really excited to go to his place and when he arrived he saw two girls, one of the girl was kissing Sasha and Sasha literally begged him to stay with the other girl to have fun. He told him he would never cheat on me and Sasha started being mad at him. My boyfriend left Sasha’s place immediately and felt really disappointed saying he was not acting as usual and that he felt like Sasha really wanted him to cheat on me.
It’s been 4 months since this happened and a week ago, Sasha called my boyfriend to hang out in a bar. My boyfriend came with a friend of his and Sasha was drunk and started talking shit about me again. He asked my boyfriend why he would date a girl like me saying I was a girl with too much experience for my boyfriend who’s never had another relationship before. He also started talking about my private life and my previous relationships that my boyfriend know of which made him uncomfortable as he is kind of jealous. My boyfriend told me about it and I can’t handle Sasha’s attitude anymore.
By the way, I learned a week ago that Sasha has been in a relationship for 2 years with a girl from another country and that he cheated on her with me the night we had something (I didn’t know before) does it has something to do with the way he wants my boyfriend to act with me ? Let me know what you think. Thank you and sorry for my bad English I’m not native.