Hi all,

I just want to see if I can get any other points of view or perspectives. My wife is very family oriented (which is probably good) better than going out to drink, etc..

But, she feels she needs to take care of her side of the family. Out of the month she'll go twice and spend to days to see her family. I can't go because of work and sometimes I just don't want to go.

We don't have kids, yet. So it's not an issue with kids but I feel she's still tied to her family. I looked it up and its like and 'enmeshment' or something of that sort. Even when she's with me she's always texting them and I know they are a bigger priority than the marriage.

We have had fights before, and nothing. I just choose to disconnect and let her do her things. She'lll be super happy and text me things about the family but honestly I don't care. They aren't mine at the end of the day.

I have thought of leaving as she is obsessed with them, but I don't know honestly. Maybe I am missing a point of view or something.


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