so he was always kinda flirty/playful at work and he swiped on me on tinder and i swiped back but then I panicked and deleted the account and then he was acting weird after that and I followed him on Instagram and he followed back and he acted normal again at work. He was kinda of playful again after that and i kind of opened myself to him more but nothing came of it so i kinda just left it and now we’re just whatever at work but he’s lowkey a dick like hot and cold and on and off with me which i think is what has be captivated. hes shorter than me but so sure of himself that it makes him so attractive to me and the whole rude thing adds to it sometimes. i want to suck his dick but i don’t know how to hint to that for him to be the one to mention it im f 19 and he’s m 24 we work at taco bell the tinder thing was about 2 months ago. Ive never done anything with anyone before so my thought was to use him as someone to learn from and to guide me, i think we have the type of dynamic to where i can be open to him about that, supposedly he has a lot of expeirnce from what hes mentioned to me, hes described as kind of a player but im just not sure how to go about it. I feel comfortable and safe enough to trust him with that. Im not sure hed be open to that with me or if hes even attracted to me in the same way. Hes leaving the job in december. but i guess my question is: how can i hint to him subtly that im interested in that so that if he is too he will say something.
edit: I get that people say not to date at work. i guess I’m just trying to understand his behavior and why it feels like there’s tension between us. He flirts sometimes, then acts distant. Is that normal for someone who’s not interested, or could it mean something else? im just trying to gauge this pretty much and if i should wait it out or just drop it.