What would you think if a guy you hardly know calls you one of the most interesting and beautiful girls they have met?
October 4, 2025
Self-explanatory
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You probably are very interesting, but if they don’t know you well enough to know that, they’re probably love bombing you and it’s a red flag for me.
It feels insincere, because it is.
He is feeding me a line, or is manic pixie dream girling me. The dudes that have done this to me have mostly lost interest when I stopped being ~interesting~ and novel and became a flawed, real life human.
Id assume he wants to fuck me or wants me romantically, and is hardcore projecting what he wishes I am onto me. Like ngl these are nice compliments and part of me would be flattered but I’d also press x for doubt.
Ok… are we in person or over text.
It would depend on how he answers the inevitable follow-up question, “What do you find interesting about me?”
A lot of guys can’t really come up with something, or will say something kinda shallow, like they like my sense of style or how sexually open I am. But if he has something actually interesting to say, then I might be intrigued.
Literally just got done with a very brief 10-day fling like this where the guy was showering me with nonstop compliments, talking/joking about marriage, texting me nonstop. We had sex 6 days into it on the third date and the energy shifted big time. On the 10th day, which we were supposed to have a 4th date, he “overslept” by nearly an hour and a half. Instead of asking for forgiveness and if he could make it up to me (I didn’t overact but I did ask if he was ghosting me / if this was a game), he waited 2 hours after his initial brief apology to write me 3 paragraphs about how I deserve an answer, not to be ignored, and that his work and home life aren’t conducive to dating. I offered to meet face to face to talk about expectations / see each other again, and he left me on read. So…….. tread carefully.
It wouldn’t feel genuine because he would only see the good parts, not all. It feels like they’re saying that to be nice not because they mean it.
That he’s full of shit and trying to get into my pants.
Someone I barely know calling me the most interesting woman he’s ever met?
Lol ok buddy, you don’t know me
I would sigh and greyrock him. If he didn’t know I’m gay and married I’d drop “my wife” in conversation. If that made him more interested and he brought up anything sexual I’d make an excuse to leave and not talk to him again. I’ve had stalkers before and they all started out like this.
He just gave you his best pickup line..
Only guy who ever said that to me was on probation for being a Tinder swindler (200k from 16 victims in 3 years. I got him arrested and now have a restraining order against him spanning multiple cities.
Just saying.
He’s trying to get laid, and says that shit to any and every woman he’s trying to have sex with.
I roll my eyes and walk away.
I’d be like “thank you, just you wait. You’re in for a treat ;)”
“What does he want?”
That’s it’s insincere since he hardly knows me-
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You never win. You cannot be interested in a girl fast, or not fast, or slowly, or after months or after a year. Either way it will be a red flag.
That he was full of shit, and adept at flattery.
I just assume he says that about every girl… so I say thanks and move on.
20 comments
You probably are very interesting, but if they don’t know you well enough to know that, they’re probably love bombing you and it’s a red flag for me.
It feels insincere, because it is.
He is feeding me a line, or is manic pixie dream girling me. The dudes that have done this to me have mostly lost interest when I stopped being ~interesting~ and novel and became a flawed, real life human.
Id assume he wants to fuck me or wants me romantically, and is hardcore projecting what he wishes I am onto me. Like ngl these are nice compliments and part of me would be flattered but I’d also press x for doubt.
Ok… are we in person or over text.
It would depend on how he answers the inevitable follow-up question, “What do you find interesting about me?”
A lot of guys can’t really come up with something, or will say something kinda shallow, like they like my sense of style or how sexually open I am. But if he has something actually interesting to say, then I might be intrigued.
Literally just got done with a very brief 10-day fling like this where the guy was showering me with nonstop compliments, talking/joking about marriage, texting me nonstop. We had sex 6 days into it on the third date and the energy shifted big time. On the 10th day, which we were supposed to have a 4th date, he “overslept” by nearly an hour and a half. Instead of asking for forgiveness and if he could make it up to me (I didn’t overact but I did ask if he was ghosting me / if this was a game), he waited 2 hours after his initial brief apology to write me 3 paragraphs about how I deserve an answer, not to be ignored, and that his work and home life aren’t conducive to dating. I offered to meet face to face to talk about expectations / see each other again, and he left me on read. So…….. tread carefully.
It wouldn’t feel genuine because he would only see the good parts, not all. It feels like they’re saying that to be nice not because they mean it.
That he’s full of shit and trying to get into my pants.
Someone I barely know calling me the most interesting woman he’s ever met?
Lol ok buddy, you don’t know me
I would sigh and greyrock him. If he didn’t know I’m gay and married I’d drop “my wife” in conversation. If that made him more interested and he brought up anything sexual I’d make an excuse to leave and not talk to him again. I’ve had stalkers before and they all started out like this.
He just gave you his best pickup line..
Only guy who ever said that to me was on probation for being a Tinder swindler (200k from 16 victims in 3 years. I got him arrested and now have a restraining order against him spanning multiple cities.
Just saying.
He’s trying to get laid, and says that shit to any and every woman he’s trying to have sex with.
I roll my eyes and walk away.
I’d be like “thank you, just you wait. You’re in for a treat ;)”
“What does he want?”
That’s it’s insincere since he hardly knows me-
[removed]
You never win. You cannot be interested in a girl fast, or not fast, or slowly, or after months or after a year. Either way it will be a red flag.
That he was full of shit, and adept at flattery.
I just assume he says that about every girl… so I say thanks and move on.