I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year now. The last couple of weeks I've seen a change in him he's been more snappy than usual.
He's also been commenting on my body.
Here's an example of the things he has been saying :

When I said I was cold : " we need to fatten you up, I need to make sure I feed you more "

Your too bony to be like a cushion
( I'm not bony I'm a size 12 hourglass with a bit of a tummy and curvy /slim/petite)

The very next morning after the comments about me being slim he says this:

Your bum is getting massive , it's huge, it's got bigger and bigger since I met you.
( it hasnt)

So these comments have come out of the blue and he has never spoken to me like this before

They also contradicted

Help me understand what is going on , why is he being like this?

My heads a mess and I'm feeling so shit about myself now


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