I might be getting into my first relationship and I have some anxiety about if I’m turned on enough or if I can even orgasm with someone else. There was oral sex and the whole experience was fun, but that was a first time thing for me and honestly, I didn’t expect to come.
So now I want to better figure out what may work/not work for me and try some things on my own first. I know I want to try penetration while my clit is stimulated, but I’m not sure how to do that, like what toys might be best and how to set up for something like that if I’m also trying to hold my phone for content, stimulate myself, and have something going in/out. Other than advice on that specific idea, I’m not sure what else to try? I have an insertable clit stimulator as is but end up alternating between it actually being inserted and just getting the direct vibration benefits.