Hi, I (24M) been with (31F) for 3 years in relationship and we've pretty moderate sex life like once or twice a week. I've no issues with frequency. Thing is sex felt like a chore for past few months, I thought I'll be over these feelings but I can't help to feel like a chore. I don't like PIV and my gf doesn't like to perform oral sex on me. I've stopped doing PIV for a while and using medications as reason to my partner. This will won't work in long term and my gf will get suspicious about it. So, I don't know what can I do to improve my sex and stop feeling like a chore.
Thank you!!