I have a long time guy friend that I've known since I was in high school. I've had a crush on him, and we hooked up when we were in college, but it never went beyond that.
I was 100% fine with the hookup. I knew what I was getting into, that he was moving out of state, and I wouldn't see him except at breaks.
I brought up one instance of when he tried to push on my head during the hookup, and I said I didn't prefer that-with him or with anyone-but I liked other aspects of hooking up.
Immediately, he goes on the defensive and accused me of saying he sexually assaulted me. And he won't let it go. Ive never said that, and never thought that. Ever. I'm not mad at him. I'm just at a loss.
Why is he doing this? I know what SA is. Ive been SA'd by an ex boyfriend. What happened with him was not that. I knew what I was getting into, knew what he wanted, and was fine with all of it..