Ok boys I really really hate my job and apply to new ones all day long. But it's remote, make $125k, have around $400k in investments mostly index funds and a lot of Tesla stock. I've always daydreamed about living out of a van or traveling the world but was too chicken shit. Now I'm married with first kid on way. Wife will make double what I make as a specialized dentist soon.
I'm a classic over achiever perfectionist who never met dad from a highly dysfunctional family so even though I hate my job I have a hard time fully slacking off. Self esteem issues related to always needing more money.
How much can I slack off and just do enough to not get fired?