Hey all, need some perspective. I go often to a coffee shop where a cute girl works. We started talking after I found her Insta. At first she asked “who are you??” but then followed me back.
Since then:
• She calls me cappuccino sir (my usual order).
• Sometimes calls me dear.
• Asked me straight up if I’m single or married.
• Told me she’s in a toxic/complicated relationship, regrets a tattoo of her BF’s name, and says she hates being single because it’s hard for her to love again.
• She waves hi/bye after her shift with a big smile.
So, is she actually interested in me or just being nice to a regular customer?
If there’s a chance, any tips on how I can increase her interest would be appreciated.
4 comments
She wants u to fight his current boyfriend
It sounds like she is interested or atleast curious. She wouldnt have followed you back outside of work if it was just professionalism. Her asking about your relationship status is something girls usually ask a guy they are interested in so they know if its safe to invest more.
I’d say if you asked her on a date, there’a a very strong chance she says yes
She’s interested but stuck in messy relationship drama. Ask her out for drinks outside work if you want, but expect chaos. Might wanna wait till she’s actually single.
I will caution you, it sounds like even if you did end up with this girl, she would come with a lot of baggage, and then you have to worry about the fact she basically cheated on her boyfriend by talking to you so it’s very possible she would do the same to you down the line