So I’m 18F, just starting to explore dating seriously, and I’ve noticed something kind of frustrating. Most of the guys I meet (either in real life or online) seem really surface-level like all they care about is looks or quick flings. I know I’m still young, but I genuinely value deep connection, emotional maturity, and good energy.
I’m creative, into music/art, and I spend a lot of time working on myself and trying to grow. But when I bring that energy into conversations, guys either get weirded out or just stop replying. It feels like the more emotionally aware I am, the harder it is to find someone on the same wavelength.