This girl (F25) and I (M28) met on a dating app and immediately clicked. We messaged constantly for two weeks but because of schedules couldn’t go out for about two weeks after matching. But once we did have our first date, we saw each other 6 times over a two week period. This included staying the night at my place and the final one being dinner at her place on a Sunday evening. Every date lasted multiple hours and all went really well, including her own words.
After the dinner at her place, we had plans to hang out the following night (Monday) too but she woke up sick. And so we rescheduled for Thursday. And then because of schedules, that didn’t happen as her best friend came into town a day earlier for the weekend. Then that Sunday she called it off. The primary reason was because of slow physical affection. We cuddled/kissed some. But I didn’t initiate as much as i should have and she felt unsure that I even liked her. TBH, I’m pretty inexperienced. And I really liked her and was more so nervous to mess things up. All of which was communicated. During the breakup back and forth, I tried to make it abundantly clear how into her I was but too little too late.
I’ve had a very hard time reconciling this all because things did seem to be going really well. And below are a handful of the messages she sent me all within a week or of breaking things off:
“Our time was so good together. So easy” (post breakup)
“I keep finding myself wanting to see you more”
“I feel so many things about you. And like this is so great and so fun and you make me so happy. Like whenever we’re together and talking I’m like la la la. So happy.“
In reference to things being so good it was weird: “No it’s a good weird. It’s not bad at all. Too good to be true?? Yeah, you.”
“I feel VVVVVV happy”
Oh, and the following morning after calling things off, she messaged me first thing in the morning with casual conversation too.
And then to break things off and just have it be over is brutal. I’m not even sure if I’m asking for anything in this post, but just needed somewhere to talk it through. And for the record, I’ve reached back out to her since, but currently I am being ghosted.