Just like the title says. She really wants us to be able to do this. We have been married 20+ years and never has. It has traditionally just been part of foreplay, then we move on to something else. Recently, she has been initiating more and taking more power over her sexuality. She says she wants to be able to do this, and I want it for her. Truthfully, though, I have never been able to cum from a blowjob easily. I can only think for it happening twice in my life. Anyone else with this issue who has worked to overcome it? I know that I don’t tend to cum easily while lying on my back, so I’m thinking a sitting position would be better. I’ve also read to encourage her to use her hand with a tighter grip and placing firm pressure on the perineum. Any other tips or tricks?