Im (25F) in an open relationship, but havent ever fully taken advantage of it. I have a friend whose also 25 and Im considering asking him for casual sex for a few reasons: hes always been very respectful to me, we share the same values when it comes to sex (were both feminists), and he has a great personality and sense of humor. Also, I sense that he has a bit of a crush on me…which I certainly could be wrong about, but thats the vibe Ive been getting. I guarantee hed never see this coming, so, does anyone have any suggestions on how to approach this topic? Should I just keep this a fantasy/is this a dumb idea? This has been on my mind for most of this year, to be honest~!