I've (40F) been on the apps on and off for the past 13 years. Never found a lasting LTR on there, but did date some guys. I noticed I got way more dates when I was in my late 20s and early 30s than now — I'm lucky if I can get 1 match a month. This could be multifactorial for me, having to do with my age, or me being pickier about lifestyle choices. But now I'd like to think the apps just suck nowadays, with more paywalls and other stuff, which I'm not willing to subscribe to.
So I'm wondering, honestly, has anyone found anything lasting through online dating in 2022 or later? Or would I do better just being in the world and meeting people that way? I'm busy anyway in grad school and am expected to graduate in 2027. I likely won't be in the same town I'm in now when i graduate, as I'll be looking for work and am willing to go to various cities in my state.
Once I settle down with work more, or know where I want to end up, that's when I'll start dating again, and I'm wondering if revisiting apps is even worth it at this point for an LTR/life partner. Just want to hear some anecdotes, and if possible some real stats.