I am a husband of 10 years and I have a question for the women. Do you have a male best friend that you call baby? How about handsome and sexy? My love? I have recently found out that my wife was saying these names to her “best friend” and I have confronted about it and she has said that it was just her way of trying to boost his self esteem as she does with other males. She does tend to flirt with other men too but not to this degree I think. Any advice?
Update: side note. I have spoke about this to her before and she gets angry and defensive everytime. She is also willing to not change because “that’s who she is” and I should not ask her to change who she is.
Update 2: her male “best friend” is also married and his wife has contacted me about the way they speak and he has cheated on his wife before in the past. She does not approve or want them to speak at all.