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Someday someone will love me the way I’m meant to be loved. I know that will happen for me as long as I allow it.
Until then, I’ll be here listening to Everything is Romantic, but the romanticized remix I’ve been hearing on TikTok nonstop this week.
Tell me why I’m over analyzing my coworker’s DM with a winky face and just loving how giddy and silly I feel about all this. This is the most excited I’ve been about dating/flirting in a while and I just wanted to scream it into the void.
Has your partner ever told you that you have a specific eye, look, or glance when you look at them?
My boyfriend told me he missed ‘those eyes’ of mine when I look at him, but he also can’t explain what makes that look different from the usual dedstare I have daily lol
Nerdy men are the bane of my existence. They’re just a walking thirst trap and someone needs to call them out 😂 attraction to them just skyrockets as soon as they start talking and I hate the control they have over me.
I’ve been dating one for less than two months and I feel like I’m in love.
First post here, kinda nerve-wracking to be honest.
After an semi successful run on the hinge app (matched with a few, had good conversations, one date with a woman but no second date) I finally decided to try my luck at speed dating. At first I was reluctant to sign up as I’m always afraid I won’t get any matches despite enjoying talking to new people. Women in general tell me I’m easy to talk to and always smile around me. However because I’m a perfectionist I always think of the worst case scenario (no matches) and what that will do to my self esteem. Another thing that worries me is that during the event there are these ‘breaks’ where you can talk and mingle with everyone. I really hate those as I usually keep to myself in a corner looking nervous as hell. Afraid women will pick up on that and label me as a ‘loser with no back bone’.
Anyways I’m probably overthinking this. There are loads of people who are just as nervous as me and it’s a shame I beat myself up over it.
The speed dating event is 16 October so lots of time to prepare haha.
If any of you guys have tips let me know!