Would you say it’s intentional if a man ejaculates inside of a woman? Do men feel if a condom is not on?
I’d like to hear the truth from men (or women who’ve experienced this).
Had sex with a guy that I was dating and knew for about a year. We’d been rocky and not really speaking to each other, so obviously when we saw each other was built up sexual tension.
We bought condoms and lube when we knew we were going back to my place. We used the condom at first during vaginal sex, and then he took it off so I could give him more oral. This is where I need advice… we did anal without a condom and then he flipped me over for missionary. I honestly thought the condom was on during anal but now I know it was not. Shortly after entering me in missionary, he ejaculated in me. He said “I’m going to cm in this p$$y” which isn’t unusual for him to say during sex. The thing is we’ve always used a condom, so him saying that wasn’t ever a worry.
Then he looks down and asks where the condom is, and I’m like??? I thought you had it on. So he says he thought so too, apologizes, and says we will get plan B the next day. The rest of the night we continue with a condom.
I feel like it was done purposely because earlier in the evening he asked me if I was going to make him wear a condom. But he was also drinking so I thought he was just talking sh*t. Was it just a mistake?
He is late forties and I’m early thirties. We both don’t want any more children, so I don’t get it. I want to believe it was a mistake but am I being naive? Does this happen with men where they don’t feel that a condom isn’t on? Looking back, I feel like he knew it wasn’t on because his reaction when he entered me in missionary was different.