We are in a long distance relationship from 1.5 years. He is serious about me (he said this). This whole mess started when his group planned a trip.
One of his friend Alex (24M) also became my friend through social media. Alex invited me to the trip and I told him that my bf has not yet asked me to come. Alex did not comment anything on that.
After 1 month, my bf and I were shopping and my bf mentioned about the trip that it got finalized but did not invite me. On asking him about this, he gave excuses initially like 1. He was worried about my studies, 2. It slipped his mind etc. Eventually he told me that he thought his friends would not like me that's why he did not invite me (I have met his friends once before). This shattered me.
Next day, I told Alex (MY BF'S FRIEND) about this and Alex talked to me very rudely and said that I should not compare myself with that girl who's going because she has been a part of the group from a long time (SHE IS ONE OF THE BROS). He also said that I should respect my bf's decision to not invite me.
All of this devastated me. I felt so bad and unloved. My bf was saying sorry but after 3-4 days he did not text me for a whole day and at night when I asked him about this, he told me that he was put shopping for the trip. This made me so furious that I asked him not to go on that trip because it was very disrespectful. He accepted but kept making me feel guilty about all of this by continuously saying that he wants to go.
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