I haven’t had sex since I was in a relationship, over 1.5 years ago. I have no sex life to be satisfied or dissatisfied with.
Sex outside of relationships are mostly wack. Don’t settle for one night stands or fuck boys ladies.
Recently it’s been once in 3-4 months
Once or twice a month if I’m lucky.
And no. Not satisfied. Quite the opposite.
Happily celibate. NSA/FWBS aren’t worth it
Its been 10 months since ive last had sex. It was with my ex bf.
Im childfree. Im not religious. Im not asexual. I just dont care for any shallow connections right now. I feel like theyre a distraction from achieving a relationship. I dont judge the women who dont want a relationship and are ok with casual sex.
Im strict about sexual compatibility, I vett a man thoroughly before I have sex with him because id rather have similar interests, roles, kinks, fetishes. Its less of a gamble on my recieving pleasure. I do not have sex with a man on ambiguity because its too much of a gamble on a dull sex life. If theres no sexual chemistry/compatibility, theres no sex. If his pp rules his decision-making, hes a liability and therefore a nope.
Every couple of weeks lately, I’ve gotten myself into a little fwb situation. It’s certainly satisfying, but after a week or so then I get a bit in my head. So it’s worth it physically but probably not always great mentally/emotionally.
Not as often as I’d like. I took a hiatus in May… so I haven’t had any since then.
I had a break up 2 years ago.
A year later I started dating another guy and he pressured me into having sex with him. Ended things.
It’s been a year since then and I haven’t had sex with anyone since.
I only want sex if I’m already in a relationship with the person.
Every few months with a steady partner, which is the right amount for me. I do wish I had some FWBs to throw in the mix though. That always makes me happier.
Zero and yes 😌
About once a month. I’m not really satisfied, I would prefer to be having a lot more sex with a committed partner.
Every week if possible. I treat it like heading to the spa or salon for rejuvenation. Just an itch that I need scratched so I can move on and focus on more important things in life. I know this may not be for everyone but I’ve always been the type who could separate emotions and treat it as a basic need. A bit robotic and not very romantic but at least for me, it is what it is.
Might be asexual… but I really prefer abstinence till in a committed and safe relationship.
I am satisfied with this choice. Barely think of sex. I usually think of intense eye contact and lingering gazes with crushes.
Since I’ve had to move back home with my family, I haven’t had sex in 2 years. Although I do get horny, it’s nothing I can’t sort myself so don’t have any desire to have sex!
About once every 2-3 weeks. I got a hookup buddy off of tinder after it had been 6 months no sex lol
never had sex 🙁
never been in a relationship 🙁
Last time was 4 years ago, after my breakup. And yes I’m happy like this, I don’t do casual stuff.
i’ve not seriously dated someone in a year and haven’t had sex since that time. tbh my fingers/vibe can get the job done, this body isn’t for just anyone anymore lol
being celibate isn’t hard once you realize none of these men deserve to touch you
Who’s getting laid
lesbian here: i haven’t had sex in about a year, since the last time i was in a relationship.
Never. It’s okay. A man has never made me orgasm anyway. I prefer masturbation.
i dont 😅 im doing okay though. i can satisfy myself 👍
Last time I had sex was in July and before that I spent more than a year celibate.
I’ve only yearned for sexual intimacy in a relationship. So I’m currently a month out of breaking up with my ex, no sex… feeling great actually. Longest I’ve gone with no sex was 1.5 years
I’m a celibate and I will leave this planet as a celibate
Well over a year, my vibe does a better job anyway
Multiple times per week. I’m satisfied.
Never
Often. Every times a week
Never
It’s been a few months, and no lmao. But I have realized I’m personally not capable of casual/fwb/hookups, so celibacy it is until I’m in a relationship again.
Been single my whole life and never had sex but I can keep myself satisfied. 🤷🏼♀️
I’m satisfied with my sex life which is kinda non existent 😂 I gave up on dating and don’t feel like one night stands or random hook ups and don’t feel a desire for sex at this point so honestly just fine without it
Maybe once every couple of months. Always bad, never finished, made me crazy in the head. Wait for connection imo
Literally 5 years for me
1-4 times a week. Casual dating, consistent FWBs, etc. I’d be more satisfied with sex with someone I was in love with, but casual sex is still fun and satisfying for me.
Not nearly often enough
When I was single , I use to dabble in having FWBs who mostly only served to get me off and no PIV was ever involved with any of them.
It was a good trade off lol
I’m aware this isn’t normal but…I had sex the first time when I was 22, and was eaten out once another time. I didn’t feel shit and it was awful. I’m 26 now and haven’t slept with anybody else yet. I’m just too…idk scared? I get hit on plenty but every time the dude indicates they want to move somewhere private to have sex, I flee the scene. Idk what’s wrong with me. I do want to have sex, I just can’t train my brain to do it.
i’m in a realtionship and haven’t even had any for the last year… rip ☠️😭
I’ve been “involved” with someone for a couple of months but definitely still single. Most weeks are 2-3 times but we were like rabbits at first, like double digits over the course of a week
I’m celibate by choice (a year now) because I can’t find men who meet my standards.
I need 10 orgasms per day to feel satisfied. So I typically masturbate twice a day, but sometimes I’ll shoot for all 10 at once, before bed.
And YES, I am beyond satisfied with this situation! My vibrators and dildos get me off better than most men ever did.
If I’m not in a relationship I don’t have sex. I have to have a strong connection with the man to sleep with him.
Once or twice a month with a regular and trusted friends with benefits. I enjoy it! I would love more frequent sex but this is currently fine for me.
Never outside of a relationship. I don’t have casual sex. I tried it in my early 20s and it was not worth it.
Never had it, and I’m curious but not particularly looking for it.
I’d love to find someone special to share intimacy, but I’m aroace so I have never been particularly interested in anyone besides little crushes that often disappeared if reciprocated.
I’m a cringe girlie who likes fictional characters too much.
Ive gone longer stretches but recently when about 1.5 years. I decided to join a site specifically for hookups lol. Basically I just said what I wanted (literally size, skill type of sex lol and what i find attractive look wise) with recent std testing proof and an initial meet up prior to the hookup to make sure we were on the same page. Was a very cool experience to just kinda of order my meal and get exactly what I wanted lol. Now he’s my Casual hookup guy when I want it and thats about it. So how often? When I want it, which is like maybe once a month. Im busy lol.
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I haven’t had sex since I was in a relationship, over 1.5 years ago. I have no sex life to be satisfied or dissatisfied with.
Sex outside of relationships are mostly wack. Don’t settle for one night stands or fuck boys ladies.
Recently it’s been once in 3-4 months
Once or twice a month if I’m lucky.
And no. Not satisfied. Quite the opposite.
Happily celibate. NSA/FWBS aren’t worth it
Its been 10 months since ive last had sex. It was with my ex bf.
Im childfree. Im not religious. Im not asexual. I just dont care for any shallow connections right now. I feel like theyre a distraction from achieving a relationship. I dont judge the women who dont want a relationship and are ok with casual sex.
Im strict about sexual compatibility, I vett a man thoroughly before I have sex with him because id rather have similar interests, roles, kinks, fetishes. Its less of a gamble on my recieving pleasure. I do not have sex with a man on ambiguity because its too much of a gamble on a dull sex life. If theres no sexual chemistry/compatibility, theres no sex. If his pp rules his decision-making, hes a liability and therefore a nope.
Every couple of weeks lately, I’ve gotten myself into a little fwb situation. It’s certainly satisfying, but after a week or so then I get a bit in my head. So it’s worth it physically but probably not always great mentally/emotionally.
Not as often as I’d like. I took a hiatus in May… so I haven’t had any since then.
I had a break up 2 years ago.
A year later I started dating another guy and he pressured me into having sex with him. Ended things.
It’s been a year since then and I haven’t had sex with anyone since.
I only want sex if I’m already in a relationship with the person.
Every few months with a steady partner, which is the right amount for me. I do wish I had some FWBs to throw in the mix though. That always makes me happier.
Zero and yes 😌
About once a month. I’m not really satisfied, I would prefer to be having a lot more sex with a committed partner.
Every week if possible. I treat it like heading to the spa or salon for rejuvenation. Just an itch that I need scratched so I can move on and focus on more important things in life. I know this may not be for everyone but I’ve always been the type who could separate emotions and treat it as a basic need. A bit robotic and not very romantic but at least for me, it is what it is.
Might be asexual… but I really prefer abstinence till in a committed and safe relationship.
I am satisfied with this choice. Barely think of sex. I usually think of intense eye contact and lingering gazes with crushes.
Since I’ve had to move back home with my family, I haven’t had sex in 2 years. Although I do get horny, it’s nothing I can’t sort myself so don’t have any desire to have sex!
About once every 2-3 weeks. I got a hookup buddy off of tinder after it had been 6 months no sex lol
never had sex 🙁
never been in a relationship 🙁
Last time was 4 years ago, after my breakup. And yes I’m happy like this, I don’t do casual stuff.
i’ve not seriously dated someone in a year and haven’t had sex since that time. tbh my fingers/vibe can get the job done, this body isn’t for just anyone anymore lol
being celibate isn’t hard once you realize none of these men deserve to touch you
Who’s getting laid
lesbian here: i haven’t had sex in about a year, since the last time i was in a relationship.
Never. It’s okay. A man has never made me orgasm anyway. I prefer masturbation.
i dont 😅 im doing okay though. i can satisfy myself 👍
Last time I had sex was in July and before that I spent more than a year celibate.
I’ve only yearned for sexual intimacy in a relationship. So I’m currently a month out of breaking up with my ex, no sex… feeling great actually. Longest I’ve gone with no sex was 1.5 years
I’m a celibate and I will leave this planet as a celibate
Well over a year, my vibe does a better job anyway
Multiple times per week. I’m satisfied.
Never
Often. Every times a week
Never
It’s been a few months, and no lmao. But I have realized I’m personally not capable of casual/fwb/hookups, so celibacy it is until I’m in a relationship again.
Been single my whole life and never had sex but I can keep myself satisfied. 🤷🏼♀️
I’m satisfied with my sex life which is kinda non existent 😂 I gave up on dating and don’t feel like one night stands or random hook ups and don’t feel a desire for sex at this point so honestly just fine without it
Maybe once every couple of months. Always bad, never finished, made me crazy in the head. Wait for connection imo
Literally 5 years for me
1-4 times a week. Casual dating, consistent FWBs, etc. I’d be more satisfied with sex with someone I was in love with, but casual sex is still fun and satisfying for me.
Not nearly often enough
When I was single , I use to dabble in having FWBs who mostly only served to get me off and no PIV was ever involved with any of them.
It was a good trade off lol
I’m aware this isn’t normal but…I had sex the first time when I was 22, and was eaten out once another time. I didn’t feel shit and it was awful. I’m 26 now and haven’t slept with anybody else yet. I’m just too…idk scared? I get hit on plenty but every time the dude indicates they want to move somewhere private to have sex, I flee the scene. Idk what’s wrong with me. I do want to have sex, I just can’t train my brain to do it.
i’m in a realtionship and haven’t even had any for the last year… rip ☠️😭
I’ve been “involved” with someone for a couple of months but definitely still single. Most weeks are 2-3 times but we were like rabbits at first, like double digits over the course of a week
I’m celibate by choice (a year now) because I can’t find men who meet my standards.
I need 10 orgasms per day to feel satisfied. So I typically masturbate twice a day, but sometimes I’ll shoot for all 10 at once, before bed.
And YES, I am beyond satisfied with this situation! My vibrators and dildos get me off better than most men ever did.
If I’m not in a relationship I don’t have sex. I have to have a strong connection with the man to sleep with him.
Once or twice a month with a regular and trusted friends with benefits. I enjoy it! I would love more frequent sex but this is currently fine for me.
Never outside of a relationship. I don’t have casual sex. I tried it in my early 20s and it was not worth it.
Never had it, and I’m curious but not particularly looking for it.
I’d love to find someone special to share intimacy, but I’m aroace so I have never been particularly interested in anyone besides little crushes that often disappeared if reciprocated.
I’m a cringe girlie who likes fictional characters too much.
Ive gone longer stretches but recently when about 1.5 years. I decided to join a site specifically for hookups lol. Basically I just said what I wanted (literally size, skill type of sex lol and what i find attractive look wise) with recent std testing proof and an initial meet up prior to the hookup to make sure we were on the same page. Was a very cool experience to just kinda of order my meal and get exactly what I wanted lol. Now he’s my Casual hookup guy when I want it and thats about it. So how often? When I want it, which is like maybe once a month. Im busy lol.
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