I’m going to be 28 soon and I’m a woman. I have been on the apps for 3 years and it’s been impossible to find a genuine person who wants something long term.
Don’t get me wrong, I match with wonderful people but things always end. This generation is not ready for marriage.
I’ve been lied to so many times that they want marriage but I end up wasting my time. Then I have baggage and need time to recover so I am excited to date again.
This cycle has repeated so many times and I’ve lost 3 years. I wish I had dated when I was younger. The people who wanted something long term already found their person. The people that are left don’t seem to be serious about marriage and just want sex or play house.
Idk if it’s worth even trying anymore. I’m losing hope. My biological clock is ticking. I haven’t bought a house yet because I want to do that with my husband. My life feels like it’s on hold in certain aspects. Everything else is great. My career, friends, family, hobbies and health is good!
For those who are young, find a person sooner rather than later. All my friends are getting married or have been in long term relationships. The ones who are single are struggling too. Only the super attractive people are having their pick XD. So many men have lead me on just to tell me that they are asking out someone else. I was just a backup.
Anyway thanks for listening to my rant. Men r everywhere but non seem to be that serious about me. I think I’ll have to give up on marriage soon at this rate.
I think it wouldn’t be so tough if people were just honest about what they wanted. Also the trauma of getting assaulted on dates is def not even worth it anymore.
I hope my man magically finds me and shows up at my door step.