Hi, I’m a 29F
I’ve been out of the dating scene for several years while focusing on work, but I’m finally ready to put myself out there again. One thing that’s been holding me back is my name.
My real name is Karen. I know that the “Karen” stereotype has been around for years, and unfortunately I’ve been laughed at or had jokes made at my expense when I introduce myself. Over time, it really got to me. At work, I go by a nickname, Keri because it’s just easier. But when it comes to dating, I want to be known by my real name.
The problem is, I don’t want to introduce myself as Keri, then later say, “actually, call me Karen.” That feels awkward and a little misleading. At the same time, I don’t know if guys will be turned off or judge me because of the stereotype.
Has anyone else dealt with something like this? Do names matter in dating, or will the right person not care?