MY gf and i have been together for 2+ years. We love each other, but our emotional needs are different and it’s been hurting her. Part of me thinks about breaking up to give us space and also see what being single is like, but I’m scared I’ll regret it and lose someone amazing. Has anyone been in a similar situation? What did you do?”
Me 18M and my gf 18F have been together for 2 years and a few months. We are so in love with eachother but she’s been hurting recently as she is quite needy emotionally wise, whilst i’m not. i do my best to support her but her emotions and mine are completely different. We don’t fight too oftern, didn’t have one fight for the first year of dating. The other night, she said she wants to break up because i’m hurting her but then she says she dosent, because she loves me sm and so do i.
We ended the convo there and decided to have a few days to think about everything then see eachother again to see what we want. I’m leaning towards breaking up with my love, even tho i love her so so much, i don’t want to be hurting her, and i also want to experience what the single life would be like, as we’ve been dating since 16, but it will just be so hard to not have her in my life anymore. I just wish we met at 20 so we were more emotionally mature and can settle down more as we are so perfect for each other. I want to say to her to go our own ways for a few months, and see how we feel about each other then and if we where to continue. And another thing i’m scared about is if we break up i won’t be able to find someone as great as her.
So, im just so lost atm and could use some advice regarding our situation.
Thankyou.