My girlfriend is F48 mentioned she's been texting a guy she met 3 years ago after her husband passed away. His wife passed away at the same time. Im M52 We normally txt through the day and evening never more than 2-3 hrs go by without texting. She now dosent txt for the whole day sometimes and I was thinking maybe we have been together for over a year now so thats why. But when she mentioned this guy the other day its made me think this is the reason why she dosent txt as much ? We dont live together and only see each other 2-4 times a week due to us having children. My last girlfriend cheated on my due to a similar situation ie, she was friends with a work colleague and ended up having a relationship with him and leaving me. Just dont know if I'm over reacting here and worrying about nothing. I will speak to her but just want to do it right.