Context: Been dating six months. This is the first time this has happened. Usually we are fine.
Firstly he wanted to do a certain position I declined because wasn’t confident enough doing it and he said if I don’t do this position he wouldn’t have sex with me. I told him he can’t do that.
I said can we do it another time and he said no now
We didn’t end up doing it but I had to stop halfway through sex because it was hurting, I said we can just do you because I’m hurting and he said no I want to have sex with you, put it back in.
At the point I felt extremely taken advantage of.
After wards he could tell there was something wrong, I explained I’m not confident doing different positions and I’m just not a confident person and have low self esteem which effects this. He told me he didn’t understand this.
I was explaining it effects my everyday life and he said well he was trying to fix it by making me more confident with sex.
I said it’s not going to fix it, it’s not about the sex.
He commented that I don’t like it when he’s being dominant I said no not really. It depends on the situation.
He then said “we have been dating for six months, you should do what I say. Guessing this is because he wants dominance in sex.