I just don't know how to process this, it caught me off guard. There were some issues such as differences in values, he is religious and i'm not, he wants children and wants to get married and i do not. however, I was very clear about these from the beginning, and he mentioned to me his dealbreakers when we made things completely official. We still wanted to keep going because i was interested in making memories with him and loving someone just to love not for the end goal of marriage.
I'm just so heartbroken because he was so into me from the beginning, wanted to make things official, was interested and respectful and then it just seems like there was a shift after we made things official, as if he took me for granted, and i was feeling and noticing that and it started making me feel confused and anxious. i just don't know what to do, i was always very intentional in dating, communicating in an open manner.
It wasn't toxic or anything, i thought we had something beautiful going on, but he told me he started losing feelings like three weeks ago, but never communicated it to me. This was a lesson for me, next time i will make sure to know the guy very well, and set boundaries so i don't experience any shifts in behaviors and attitudes 🙁