I (F,29) went out with a guy (M,39). We met on tinder. We texted for a week before we went on a date and I thought he was really interested. He was triple texting me all throughout the week if I didn’t reply, joking etc. He’s been divorced twice, single for three years, two kids. He asked me out on the date, took me to Dave and Buster’s. We were having fun the whole time I thought? Banter was good, flirting, picking on each other, etc. We hugged after. Texted him after and said thank you again and that I had fun. Said he did too. Then left me on delivered for a whole day. I texted him and said I hoped he had a good day and he said he hoped I did too.
I asked if you would be open to a second date and today I get this text that says: “Hey. I did have some fun with you. You are a cool girl for sure. I enjoyed the chatting. Definitely a great person. I just didn’t feel that spark.”
While we were texting previously, he did say something that kind of struck me, he said “there’s a lot of good women out there who aren’t for me”
lol what does that mean? I’ve been out of the game so long I just feel vulnerable and dumb.