Known this girl for around 5 years and liked her for 4, been one of my closest friends. Told her that iv been into her for years couple of months back. She told me she reciprocated it abuot a year go but shes not sure now. Told me recently again that shes not into me (conversation came up as a joke). I have all the closure i need to know she doesnt want me, but no one we know feels like she doesnt including me. She acts like she does but according to her "shes like this with everyone".
Can't seem to get over her guys, I see her everyday… Even if i don't make contact with her first its inevitable cause our lives just clash. Feel like shes the first person I have loved and everytime I look at her smile all the feelings just come back but when im not talking to her its fine.
What did you guys do to move on? i have heard the constant no contact thing but it doesnt work for me, I was on no contact with her for a 3 months in the middle but it didnt work.
edit: the only reason i feel like she could be into me is cause her friends keep telling me she is (doesnt not matter cause she doesnt share anhything with her friends), she has never liked ANY guy, If she was into me once why not again? , She has never given me a direct no in a serious conversation