I made a post the other day about this guy. But long story short we’ve been going out for a month, had 4 dates, 3 dates ended in car sex, one sex st mine. He called me right after that date and asked me to take plan b bc there was a problem with the condom, I told him I was scared bc I’ve never taken it before. I started to develop feelings for him and asked if we could have a call since I didn’t hear from him for 5 days, he called immediately and i asked him to clarify his intentions. He said he’s looking for something serious but doesn’t want to rush into anything.

Anyways he asked if I’d like to continue this convo in person and I said yes. Then he proceeds to tell me about his week, he got in a car accident and has to deal with insurance stuff. He asked me about myself and all that then I end with “yeah let me know about Friday or Saturday.” And he said he would. Ok come Friday, I check in and ask how he’s doing with everything and acknowledge I know it’s been a rough week for him. He replied aftwr 7 hours and said “I am good. How are you? It’s been a really busy day between patients and dealing with car and insurance. What are you up to?” And I reply within 15 mins and he doesn’t answer me. I just don’t know if I scared him away, he’s stringing me along, what’s going on? It seemed like he really cared about me, took me out to nice dinners, etc

I’m laying in bed right now, crying so much over this. Should I just tell him I don’t want to see him anymore bc I feel like we want different things??


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