So my bf M/44 and I F/34 have been together for a year and half. We’ve already been talking about getting engaged soon and recently found out I am 5 weeks pregnant. We both have children from previous marriages. We spend time with each other almost daily.
I noticed when he has his kids, he doesn’t always invite us along, especially if his family and their kids are in town. I didn’t mind at first, thinking maybe we aren’t that serious. But either way a baby on the way and him supposedly proposing in the next few weeks, I expected that we’d be doing things as a family.
He has family coming in town tonight. And when I asked when I’d see him, he said on Sunday. And explained he has a play date for his daughter and then said his families coming into town. I was hurt by this wondering, why we can’t all spend time together, especially if we’re marrying soon. Thoughts?
TL:DR feeling left out when serious bf doesn’t include us in plans with kids and family