I’ve [26F] been dating this guy [31M] for 5 months. He’s absolutely wonderful. We have common interests, our chemistry is amazing, and we have lots of fun together. He cooks me amazing meals as well. However, he hasn’t planned any date, not one. I’ve never had a relationship where I wasn’t the planner and I am really good at planning and picking dates. I’m usually the more romantic one as well. Last time we went out, I chose two places for dinner and asked which one he wanted to go to. Kinda of pushing him to take some initiative. He said whichever one he was fine with and just wanted to eat. So I ended up choosing because he didn’t. Every week, I ask for his reschedule and choose the day, time, and date we get together. It’s been like this the whole time. I understand that not every relationship will be 100% perfect and there’s some things you will compromise on. But I am becoming exhausted at planning every week because I’m a student and work full time. He shows me he cares in other ways but any time he has to show any initiative, he can’t. Even with something as simple as choosing a movie. I don’t know he’s amazing and I’m falling in love but just want to know how to navigate this or if it’s something I just have to accept.