To start, I am bisexual. My husband and I were sitting at the park and a girl passed by. My husband said to me “would you bang her?” In a joking way but I got pretty upset. I thought it was disrespectful to me as his wife and even to the woman. He said he was just trying to be playful with me and apologized. He reassured me I’m the only one he wants to be with. I am very insecure so I know I have issues with getting jealous and I have a history of letting this cause issues in our relationship. But this made me feel really icky and idk if I should just laugh it off as him trying to look at ppl together or if this is weird behavior.