I don’t know how often I should be reaching out. My preference would be none times in between planning the date and going on the date, just because, I don’t know, we’ll catch up when we see each other, and it feels a little forced. I’ll usually hit them up with a text a day before the date asking how their week has been and if they’re still good to go for the date.

But I genuinely don’t know if that’s appropriate. I went on a few dates before with a girl who was texting me daily straight after the first date and I thought that was a little wild, but I literally have no idea what the etiquette is for this stuff.

Any thoughts?


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