I have not been talking to this guy for 4 months now. We’ve been on dates while he was in town and were also intimate. It’s a long distance situation but we knew what we were greeting ourselves into. I haven’t seen him in 3 months and I’m about to go visit him tomorrow. Neither of us are seeing other people. I don’t want to rush into things but he had mentioned his ex and him weren’t really official until after 8 months. I’m 29 I really do not want to be strung around for any longer than this. I like him and I would like to have an actual relationship. How should I bring it up and word it? Because if he’s still not sure I just don’t want to continue seeing where things go as by now he should know if he wanted to be with me or not. And yes I am more than willing to do long distance.