22F and I’ve never had a relationship or a boyfriend. After being scared of the male species and being taught to ‘stay away and focus on my education,’ I feel like I’m finally in a place where I can date. I was always scared to date when I was younger because of how I grew up, but as dumb as it may sound, the whole feeling of ‘trouble’ has finally worn off, and I believe I’m ready. I’d like advice because I have no idea what I’m doing, lol. I’m not actively looking or on any dating apps, more so just going with the flow. I’m not completely clueless when it comes to having standards or anything, but it still feels sort of awkward for me.


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  2. Dating is terrifying. But what’s scarier, taking the plunge or losing your chance?

    I’m 32 M. I focused on my education and career for years. I eventually dated 1 woman. I married her, ended up happy… for a time, and am now divorced and looking for someone new. I haven’t got much dating experience, but have been trying to find someone through family and friends, and through dating apps. It sucks. But finding someone to enjoy life with is so much more worthwhile.

  3. My best advice for someone your age just starting to date is don’t lose yourself trying to “fix” other people. You’re going to meet plenty of great people in your life and nobody is perfect all the time but someone will be perfect for you ❤️

  4. All I can say is be mindful of guys. Trust your instinct and don’t go in, or especially all in for any guy that shows potential. Figure him out first cause you don’t want to be down the road and be like… why did I do this. Cause it happened to me more than once. You know who you are and what you want. Don’t settle for anything less. Even for the first bf

  5. My only advice is to pay attention and don’t trust people too easily: it’s Full of assholes on the apps Who will try to take advantage of your poor experience. Listen to your sensation when you meet them: our body has a great detective radar! As for the rest, try to live it without too much pressure: if you like someone, ask questions, listen to them and spend time with them.

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