So me, 20m, and my friend that I've known since high school, 20f, (I do have the intention of wanting to date them) went to a small house party over the weekend, there was alcohol, but I stayed sober so I could drive us. We meet up, drive there, there's about 12 people, I know 4 of them. During the party, things were going extremely well, some casual touching, everyone went to Wendy's, she fed me some fries and stuff, still going well, stays that way the entire party. I take us to my house after the party, since her parents don't know she drinks, we both drink parked in front of my house, talking, she is getting a little too open because of the alcohol, but it's okay, it's nice to learn about her. Eventually both of us need to go to the bathroom, so we both sneak into my room (mostly just to avoid waking up my parents, they wouldn't care if they knew), we watch regular show, keep drinking, all is well.
This is when it gets interesting. after her 3rd bathroom break, she comes back, and pretty much pounces on me in the bed, on my lap, kissing, grinding, holding me close. This is a good time to mention that in my 20 years of age, I've never dated a girl, much less made out with one or had intimacy (I didn't care enough in high school, and now it's really hard to meet people). I hadn't had as much to drink at this point, so I know having intimacy would not be a good idea, she's drunk, I'm tipsy, no condom, I did let her make out with me, which I'll admit is something I shouldn't have done, but I was tipsy and had never been close to this situation before. Almost 2 and a half hours go by of her pretty much begging me to have intimacy with her, while I beg her to go to sleep (about 5 am right now) and fight her off me. I had cut her off a while ago, but she later admitted later that she metabolizes alcohol really slowly. Eventually we fall asleep, my original plan was to let her sleep in my bed, and sleep on the floor, but I was so tired that I just fell asleep next to her.
I wake up early, let her sleep in, explain everything to my parents (minus the making out and intimacy, just that I was letting a drunk girl sleep over) eventually I get her up around 8:30 because she said she needed to be home by 10:00, she's hungover, doesn't remember anything past watching regular show, I explain everything she did, the trauma dumping, the pouncing, the embarrassing stuff she said to try and get me on board, but I made sure that we didn't do anything other than kiss. She's horrified, so sorry, thinks I hate her (which is fair she kinda assaulted me but I don't really mind because I wouldn't mind doing that with her if she wasn't drunk). I give her some hangover stuff and let her go home. and right now we're pretending it didn't happen, exactly where we were at before the party, which sucks, because I think we made good progress at the party. i don't want to out of the blue be like "hey so remember when you pounced on me, I kinda liked it" but I do want to keep pursuing her, it's just that this is a big deal to her and not to me. I don't really know what to do, especially since I have just started a job thats schedule isn't very good for a relationship (2-10 pm) especially since she's in college
TLDR: made good progress with getting into a relationship with a friend at a party, later that night she pounces on me drunk (didn't let anything happen), we're pretending it didn't happen, I don't know what to do