I (24 F) and my fiance (23 M) have been arguing quite a bit. I’ll admit, I’m very short tempered. I work 5 days a week in office and I often feel really tired once I get home and weekends are my days to relax and spend time with my fiance. He also works full time but wfm 4 days and 1 in office. Our arguments stem from my frustrations of feeling like a personal chef/roommate. We’re rarely intimate. He doesn’t really initiate or if I do he’s always tired. I do our laundry, cook dinner everyday, wake up and go to the gym before work and still come back and make us breakfast.
While he’s home he does the dishes and takes care of our pet. Idk I just feel like I’m doing a lot more. Considering he’s home while working and has expressed that he has down time, I feel like he should at least help out with dinner.
I’ve brought this up to him and he argues that he’s just as busy and he worked hard to get his job. I never said anything about his job?? I just think that since I’m gone most of the time, he should try to make dinner. Or at least go grocery shopping with me so that way we can pick something he can easily make.
I just feel like I’m starting to resent him because I constantly have to remind him about stuff or ask him to do something. He says I act like his parent and that hurt my feelings because I wouldn’t have to be on him if he would just listen.
Idk what to do I just feel depressed.
TL;DR
My fiance and I have been arguing because I feel like I do a lot more than he does and he says I nag him like a parent. I don’t know how to bring this up.