I’m in my early 20’s and have been single for a while. I do think I’m attractive, and I don’t experience any issues attracting men.
It’s just the quality of person. I don’t care about money, and I don’t care about most surface level things. I think it’s a bold faced lie to say I wouldn’t care about looks to some extent – but I’m getting to the point where that’s even going out the window.
I keep attracting good looking, successful men…but they are not kind people. That’s not to say this type of person doesn’t exist, but I want to know how to attract people who treat others well. I’ve dated good looking men who were nice to me, but absolutely disgusting towards service workers, disabled people, etc. People who did not treat their friends or family well, either. It turned me off like crazy and things inevitably ended. It’s an endless cycle of just cutting people off or breaking up.
I just find myself noticing these attributes and running for the hills. Sometimes it’s way too far into the relationship for my liking. What are some early signs I can pick up on to know whether someone is pretty, but an absolute piece of shit? Are there particular places to look?